well now this is crappy and has my mind in a whirl wind.  A bud of mine well hsi girl up and left while he was at work, kid and all.  To top it off also found out the kid that we just celibrated his first birthday is not his.  So well i don't want to imagin his mindset but it has me in a mess as well to all of this.  Now i can be calouse and down right evil but i never woudl have done this to even those that i do hate.  I dont knwo what else to say

Z